Thursday, July 26, 2007

Changing Behaviors

Are you always working and don't have time to relax? Welcome to the human race! The best part is we are able to change our behavior anytime we want.

Yesterday was one of my special days! My grandson, Dillon and I spent the day in New York City. We shopped, had an expensive lunch and saw a Broadway show, “Les Miserable.”

While on the train I was watching someone working and saw myself. When he got on the train he took out his Blackberry, laptop computer and notes. He composed a document from his notes, scheduled appointments and had conversations with various people. This all took place within 45 minutes. It was quite amazing.

While watching him, I thought about my work habits and spending a limited time relaxing and having fun. To make matters worse, while in one of the stores, I stood on a beam of light and my personality trait was, “I think too much and should eat more chocolate.” How true, I am always thinking and never relaxing.

Today is a new day and I am going to take a small step in changing my work habits. I will only work 4 hours today, enjoy myself relaxing and spending time with Dillon. By being the CEO of my life, I can always start a new behavior anytime I want.

What behavior would you like to change today? Remember all it takes is one little step to start the process of changing the habit. Have fun with the experiment and let me know about your new behavior and small step you are going to take. I am always available to support you in making these changes.

I would love to hear about the behavior you would like to change and the small step you are going to take. You can leave your new plan on this blog by hitting the commitment button at the bottom of this article or send an email to helen@loveyourselfcoaching.net. I am looking forward to hearing from you.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Helen,
This was a great observation that you had which turned into a vaulable self refletction! You are right, many of us need to learn to balance our lifes and learn how to feed the soul.
We are on the same page today, I wrote something that was very similar.

Anonymous said...

Hi Mark:

As they say we are constantly learning,which is a good thing.
I will check out your blog. Helen